The Single Track Guy

Was having lunch with Caila at the Tav on Friday with her ex, which turned out to be true to the saying, Never judge a book by its cover or looks can be deceiving.

He looked like quite a nice fellow and seemed like quite a nice fellow the way he handled meeting me for the first time. After the lunch and drink at the Tav, we went off to gerontology lecture she told us why she and her ex had broken up.

He’s the kinda guy that has one thing on his mind only. Not to mention the fact that he had cheated on her not once, but TWICE and had the guts to tell her and said at least he was being honest. What kind of a stupid guy is that? Who would cheat and tell? I’m not condoning cheating and not telling, but the whole idea of cheating on your girlfriend and then wanting to get back together after you’ve broken off just sounds like you’re bordering on desperate.

Getting back together won’t do much good, cause I see it as the girl just being a substitute for whatever bigger fish that may come along his way in the future. So she is this poor sacrifical fish, just waiting and waiting… I doubt the guy even be faithful to her the next time around anyway.

I for one draw a line when a guy is unfaithful to me, I’ve got my standards. The actualy act of cheating, to me signifies that he doesn’t think I am good enough for his standards, so why should I even give him anymore chances to play me around like that. I’m not a fool at all.

To me, the kinda guy that has sex on his mind constantly is really just not worth the time and energy involved to even be in a relationship with. Sex is not the most important thing sin a relationship; understanding, trust, faithfulness and honesty are more the kinds of values in guys that would make us girls really admire you.

This definitely is a weird morning of sorts. I’ve got my assignment due on Thursday and somehow I’ve given up being stressed about it. Whatever happens, let it just happen. I really cannot be stuffed to do this anymore. I’m definitely bursting out of my brain. Someone please tell me I’m not mental. Please?

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