Comments on: One Down, Three To Go http://kristinesays.com/2007/06/12/one-down-three-to-go/ My Life Tue, 28 Dec 2010 17:06:11 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0.1 By: Jerry aka Dad http://kristinesays.com/2007/06/12/one-down-three-to-go/#comment-284 Jerry aka Dad Tue, 12 Jun 2007 13:56:11 +0000 http://kristinesays.com/2007/06/12/one-down-three-to-go/#comment-284 Kristine/Zaneta (if you are reading ) Dear Girls...its perfectly alright to "brainstorm" on the subject of marriage and try to understand the many facet of this union. Have an advice but don't have to agreed. If you attach yourself to one person, you ultimately end up having an unhealthy relationship...Needing people in our lives is healthy,human and natural.Needing a person to love at a very deep level is also soothing to the soul's well-being.Love and attachment are not synonymous,however. They are close to being opposite.....Figure it out....girls Jerry Kristine/Zaneta (if you are reading )

Dear Girls…its perfectly alright to “brainstorm” on the subject of marriage and try to understand the many facet of this union.

Have an advice but don’t have to agreed.

If you attach yourself to one person, you ultimately end up having an unhealthy relationship…Needing people in our lives is healthy,human and natural.Needing a person to love at a very deep level is also soothing to the soul’s well-being.Love and attachment are not synonymous,however. They are close to being opposite…..Figure it out….girls

Jerry

]]> By: Kristine http://kristinesays.com/2007/06/12/one-down-three-to-go/#comment-282 Kristine Tue, 12 Jun 2007 11:07:06 +0000 http://kristinesays.com/2007/06/12/one-down-three-to-go/#comment-282 Dad: Good opinion...hehehe.....don't worry, I will be wise when entering into relationship later in life :D Zaneta: Hahaha......Well, we can always dream on now can't we? :P You won't die after exams, we'll go out and have dinner soon yeh? I miss you alreaedy, haven't seen u in 2-3 weeks and it seems like ages!!! His MSN nickname does make you wonder what he's up to now. Lol Dad: Good opinion…hehehe…..don’t worry, I will be wise when entering into relationship later in life :D

Zaneta: Hahaha……Well, we can always dream on now can’t we? :P You won’t die after exams, we’ll go out and have dinner soon yeh? I miss you alreaedy, haven’t seen u in 2-3 weeks and it seems like ages!!! His MSN nickname does make you wonder what he’s up to now. Lol

]]> By: Zaneta http://kristinesays.com/2007/06/12/one-down-three-to-go/#comment-281 Zaneta Tue, 12 Jun 2007 10:04:16 +0000 http://kristinesays.com/2007/06/12/one-down-three-to-go/#comment-281 Wahhh I wish my parents would say something like that to me... Kristine... I think that means you should stop talking to me, since we end up talking about marriage. Hehehe Can't wait till after exams (although I might be dead) Psst. I just saw John Wong's nickname on Msn. It contained this: "What's the difference between true love and genital herpes?- Genital herpes lasts forever!" Wahhh I wish my parents would say something like that to me…

Kristine… I think that means you should stop talking to me, since we end up talking about marriage. Hehehe

Can’t wait till after exams (although I might be dead)

Psst. I just saw John Wong’s nickname on Msn. It contained this: “What’s the difference between true love and genital herpes?- Genital herpes lasts forever!”

]]> By: Jerry aka Dad http://kristinesays.com/2007/06/12/one-down-three-to-go/#comment-280 Jerry aka Dad Tue, 12 Jun 2007 09:20:52 +0000 http://kristinesays.com/2007/06/12/one-down-three-to-go/#comment-280 You want my opinion :) Generally speaking, for most parents when their children gets involves in a relationship at a very young age ,they get worried and on the hand when they don't have a relationship at an older age, they also get worried.So when is the ideal age? or for that matter how much difference should the age gap be? As for me there is no fix rule to "this" game and there is no guarantee that any one opinion works better than other or vice versa. Just an advice though that you don't set your mind to grow up believing that life needed to be a certain way to be happy. Happiness lies within and we must encourage it to spring forth. Life is a gift and we can show our gratitude for the wonder of this gift. Anyway whatever it is we love you always... Jerry You want my opinion :)

Generally speaking, for most parents when their children gets involves in a relationship at a very young age ,they get worried and on the hand when they don’t have a relationship at an older age, they also get worried.So when is the ideal age? or for that matter how much difference should the age gap be? As for me there is no fix rule to “this” game and there is no guarantee that any one opinion works better than other or vice versa.

Just an advice though that you don’t set your mind to grow up believing that life needed to be a certain way to be happy. Happiness lies within and we must encourage it to spring forth. Life is a gift and we can show our gratitude for the wonder of this gift.

Anyway whatever it is we love you always…

Jerry

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